What possess a man to pursue a woman in a gay club? The other night my friends and I went out and my best friend Danielle came along with us. Now, Danielle is a straight woman, a hag who just wanted to go out with her fag.
Some clown claiming to be just there with his "boyz" was trying to pick her up? Needless to say I interjected and one thing lead to another and we were kicked out for me attempting to beat this guys ass. LOL...
Why in 2009 do men still feel the need to be "DL"? Is it that serious you cant come to terms with your life that you must involve the lives of others. There is nothing more liberating then a man coming to terms with his sexuality.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Amazing....
As a Christmas gift I was given an iPhone and recently decided to have it activated. The phone it itself has thousands of applications. One particular called Loopted is a social networking app. This evening as I was scrolling Loopted and came across this particular profile picture with two guys hugging. The headline read "I have an amazing partner".
It got me to thinking what makes him so amazing?? Does he smile in the mornings at you, does he uplift your spirit after a hard days work, does he make you laugh, does he keep your relationship new and exciting, are you equally yoked? Oh wait that's what I want in a partner. Dictionary.com defines amazing as "causing great surprise or sudden wonder". Its also synonymous with astonishing, fantastic, incredible, and wonderful.
This guy has claimed to have found a partner who is amazing and so amazing he wanted to tell the world. WOW!!!! Althought I am not seeking a relationship if only I can be so lucky.
It got me to thinking what makes him so amazing?? Does he smile in the mornings at you, does he uplift your spirit after a hard days work, does he make you laugh, does he keep your relationship new and exciting, are you equally yoked? Oh wait that's what I want in a partner. Dictionary.com defines amazing as "causing great surprise or sudden wonder". Its also synonymous with astonishing, fantastic, incredible, and wonderful.
This guy has claimed to have found a partner who is amazing and so amazing he wanted to tell the world. WOW!!!! Althought I am not seeking a relationship if only I can be so lucky.
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Table for 1
Norman Cousins once said, "the eternal quest of the individual human being is to shatter his loneliness." From the beginning of life we are surrounded by others. In conversations with people, I have often times heard them express how the thought of being alone or growing old alone frightens them.
Typically when we see an elder and/or know someone who is alone we view them as crazy, strange etc. It is a constant reminder of what we don't want to be. Its funny that we are able to do so much alone, yet so many other things "require" us to be with someone else.
Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone and solitude expresses the glory of being alone. When you become strong enough to love yourself 100% good and bad, you have no problem requesting a ....... table for 1.
Typically when we see an elder and/or know someone who is alone we view them as crazy, strange etc. It is a constant reminder of what we don't want to be. Its funny that we are able to do so much alone, yet so many other things "require" us to be with someone else.
Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone and solitude expresses the glory of being alone. When you become strong enough to love yourself 100% good and bad, you have no problem requesting a ....... table for 1.
Friday, January 9, 2009
1.8.81
As of last year my birthday has become a very touchy subject for me.
Last night I was out with a group of friends to "celebrate" my birthday at Surins and somehow someway the night got ugly when two friends got into an argument. To make light of the situation, I decided to "recreate" the events change the location and their names... LOL....
The cast of characters included Barbara Ann, Lilly Jane, Odessa, Bubba Joe and myself. When I arrived at the Barbara Ann was already sitting at the bar drinking a glass of thunderbird and reading soap opera digest. We hugged as she wished me a happy birthday. Shortly after I arrived Odessa came in explaining how she has been combing her hair all day and her wrist is really hurting. We said awww…. Maybe you should have a drink to calm your nerves. She said sure "I will get a glass of Boones Strawberry Hill bartender". So we are all just standing there kee keeing about how great I look and how fabulous my wardrobe was. I remind them that all it takes is a great Dr. and a great knife to look the way I look. As we are looking out the window we see Lilly Jane and Bubba Joe coming in.
I go over to tell the hostess our party is here. She said “they are just cleaning the table in the golden suite and if you all want to get started we just put out some fresh clean plates at the buffet please feel free to help yourselves.” We get settled in the room and we all sit down and start to talk. The waiter comes in and Bubba Joe orders a MD 20/20, I order a shot of water, and Lilly Jane orders a double chocolate chardonnay with coco chips on top.
As the night progresses we engage in some deep conversations from ctrl p + ctrl v=1.5 billable to how the lights went out in Hawaii. Between the MD, the Boones, the Thunderbird and the constant trips to the buffet line the conversation gets really deep. Barbara Ann ask Odessa a question and she becomes heated and say “how dare you” she then throws her drink on Barbara Ann. Barbara stunned by what has happen pulls her wig off to reveal a spike Mohawk. Odessa embarrassed runs out leaving one of her glass slippers behind. As we are leaving not believing what has happen Odessa walks back in and say what happen to my shoe I know you stole it Derrick, I say what then reach in my bag and pull out my tee shirt which said “BYTCH PLEASE”!!!! Barbara Ann said no I have it Odessa who can’t believe that she had her slipper goes into her purse and pulls out a set of brass knuckles and tells Barbara Ann to bring it outside. Bubba Joe said you know what that’s my cue to leave I got billables to do and he takes off. Lilly Jane who is high from chocolate tries to calm Odessa down.
Barbara Ann said let her azz go I am from the West End I will shank her ass… Bubba Joe hearing that as he is on his way out the door comes back and say did she say shank? I said yes. He said “shank as in to stab or jug” I say yes… he said OK I am out of here. So we get outside and Odessa has pulled her car around to the front and her face is greased up and she has taken off her shoes. Barbara Ann then gives Lilly Jane her earrings and then she walks up to Odessa and grabs her wrist. Odessa then runs off and jumps in her car and speeds off.
When I get home(it took 15 minutes) there was a Marshall at my door with a subpoena to appear in court for tomorrow. It read Odessa Jones vs. Barbara Ann Swoops. I am like WTF.. So I go to court this morning there is Odessa with black mac make up around her eye with her wrist in a sling. On the other side was Barbara Ann. Odessa has filed suit alleging Barbara Ann broke her wrist and she has to have it replaced. Because Odessa does real paralegal work she was able to prove that Barbara Ann really did insult her and now Shelley I mean Barbara Ann has to sell her house to pay for Denise I mean Odessa medical bills.
I never was able to have cheesecake on my bday.
Last night I was out with a group of friends to "celebrate" my birthday at Surins and somehow someway the night got ugly when two friends got into an argument. To make light of the situation, I decided to "recreate" the events change the location and their names... LOL....
The cast of characters included Barbara Ann, Lilly Jane, Odessa, Bubba Joe and myself. When I arrived at the Barbara Ann was already sitting at the bar drinking a glass of thunderbird and reading soap opera digest. We hugged as she wished me a happy birthday. Shortly after I arrived Odessa came in explaining how she has been combing her hair all day and her wrist is really hurting. We said awww…. Maybe you should have a drink to calm your nerves. She said sure "I will get a glass of Boones Strawberry Hill bartender". So we are all just standing there kee keeing about how great I look and how fabulous my wardrobe was. I remind them that all it takes is a great Dr. and a great knife to look the way I look. As we are looking out the window we see Lilly Jane and Bubba Joe coming in.
I go over to tell the hostess our party is here. She said “they are just cleaning the table in the golden suite and if you all want to get started we just put out some fresh clean plates at the buffet please feel free to help yourselves.” We get settled in the room and we all sit down and start to talk. The waiter comes in and Bubba Joe orders a MD 20/20, I order a shot of water, and Lilly Jane orders a double chocolate chardonnay with coco chips on top.
As the night progresses we engage in some deep conversations from ctrl p + ctrl v=1.5 billable to how the lights went out in Hawaii. Between the MD, the Boones, the Thunderbird and the constant trips to the buffet line the conversation gets really deep. Barbara Ann ask Odessa a question and she becomes heated and say “how dare you” she then throws her drink on Barbara Ann. Barbara stunned by what has happen pulls her wig off to reveal a spike Mohawk. Odessa embarrassed runs out leaving one of her glass slippers behind. As we are leaving not believing what has happen Odessa walks back in and say what happen to my shoe I know you stole it Derrick, I say what then reach in my bag and pull out my tee shirt which said “BYTCH PLEASE”!!!! Barbara Ann said no I have it Odessa who can’t believe that she had her slipper goes into her purse and pulls out a set of brass knuckles and tells Barbara Ann to bring it outside. Bubba Joe said you know what that’s my cue to leave I got billables to do and he takes off. Lilly Jane who is high from chocolate tries to calm Odessa down.
Barbara Ann said let her azz go I am from the West End I will shank her ass… Bubba Joe hearing that as he is on his way out the door comes back and say did she say shank? I said yes. He said “shank as in to stab or jug” I say yes… he said OK I am out of here. So we get outside and Odessa has pulled her car around to the front and her face is greased up and she has taken off her shoes. Barbara Ann then gives Lilly Jane her earrings and then she walks up to Odessa and grabs her wrist. Odessa then runs off and jumps in her car and speeds off.
When I get home(it took 15 minutes) there was a Marshall at my door with a subpoena to appear in court for tomorrow. It read Odessa Jones vs. Barbara Ann Swoops. I am like WTF.. So I go to court this morning there is Odessa with black mac make up around her eye with her wrist in a sling. On the other side was Barbara Ann. Odessa has filed suit alleging Barbara Ann broke her wrist and she has to have it replaced. Because Odessa does real paralegal work she was able to prove that Barbara Ann really did insult her and now Shelley I mean Barbara Ann has to sell her house to pay for Denise I mean Odessa medical bills.
I never was able to have cheesecake on my bday.
Monday, January 5, 2009
The OK Life
I had a conversation with a friend of mine tonight about guys in Atlanta. He could not understand why people he has dated are so complacent. An example he gave was a date to the movies and how the other person stated they did not have the funds for that. He thought to himself you don't have 10 dollars? Which under some circumstances we both agreed you may not have money however why is that always the case? This applies to all aspects of life not just finances.
After we finished our conversation, of course I started to think why do we become so complacent in life? What makes us stop striving for more? Automatic repetitive behavior is what the brain is designed for. Complacency is not the result of apathy, carelessness or a flaw in your personality its just the way we as humans are.
You can start giving daily attention to your needs and desires. We all have desires and those desires require you to step box and picture where you want to be. Never settle for an OK life. Always strive for your best life yet. Remember a business plan without a strategy is just a wish.
After we finished our conversation, of course I started to think why do we become so complacent in life? What makes us stop striving for more? Automatic repetitive behavior is what the brain is designed for. Complacency is not the result of apathy, carelessness or a flaw in your personality its just the way we as humans are.
You can start giving daily attention to your needs and desires. We all have desires and those desires require you to step box and picture where you want to be. Never settle for an OK life. Always strive for your best life yet. Remember a business plan without a strategy is just a wish.
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
子 to 丑
2008 was the year of the Rat according to the Chinese Zodiac. When I think about rats a few things come to mind: rodents, betrayal, disease, experimentation, dirtiness. Needless to say it was one of my worst years ever. The year included death, devastation, divorce, drama, in that exact order. Starting with the burial of my great grandmother ending with drama between a friend and I. My thoughts about rats proved to be true in 2008. The year taught me some valuable lessons:
- Rodents are all around you tread lightly, in an attempt not to crush them. Be careful when inviting them into your space often times they multiply.
- Betrayal comes when you least expect it. Although its unfortunate, I have learned to keep my security level at "blue" (guarded) and to never have a problem elevating when disaster arises.
- Disease enters your life with an attempt take over and destroy who you are. Don't believe everything placed before you, doctors are not always right research yourself. A cure can be 14 days away as in my case.
- Experiments are a great way to determine what you can and cant deal with. Experiment often but watch out for rodents and betrayal.
- Dirt is an adjective used to describe things soiled; foul; unclean. I laugh at this one because often times people wearing dirty clothes attempted to help me clean my laundry. You then learn to never take advice from those in the same boat, but listen to those already ashore. Otherwise you will never reach the dock.
"Every time you suppress some part of yourself or allow others to play you small, you are in essence ignoring the owner's manual your creator gave you and destroying your design." (O.W.)As I move into the year of the Ox, the Rat has made me stronger, more knowledgable, and I have become my greatest asset. This year to thy ownself, I will be true.
The Grind
1:03 am. Its hard and I think you feel the heat pulsating from it as its pressed against your firm back side. Holding you in my arms from behind I began to feel your arousal. You turn to me kissing me softly yet intensely, I slowly move my hands down your well defined back into your red underwear. Feeling the firmness of your body I can not help but to become more aroused as I turn you over and pull them off. Running my tongue down your body, I hear you moaning in pleasure reaching for me and telling me not to stop. I wrap my arms around your legs and raise you up on all four's as I press my face into your body then turn you back over. Sliding between your toned thighs, I began to lick you from your erection to your neck. As you turn towards me wrapping your thighs around me we lightly start to stroke. We moan in one another mouth as we continue kissing.
Breaking the kiss, I began to nibble along your nipples. In complete darkness I am able to feel how beautifully formed, your entire body is. I continued kissing down your body, and licking your abs. I could feel your arousal tremble in my hand. Down on my knees, I kiss the head of your arousal. You moaned again as I opened my mouth and pushed your arousal through my lips. I loved the taste and the smoothness of the area surrounding it you pushed more into my mouth, ever so slowly.
Taking my time, not wanting to rush anything, wanting you to enjoy what I was doing, I slip 2 fingers inside you. As you whisper "I love when you do that to me..." turning me on even more I begin to bob my head up and down while I push my fingers in and out of you. Massaging your full balls in my hand, you moaned out loud. You raised my head up so that I may kiss you as you are laying me on my back.
You start to run your tongue down my firm body until you reach my freshly shaved arousal. You start sucking me deep reaching around to grab my cheeks you pull me even closer. As I began moaning you turn me over and put your tongue inside of me.
Wet, you slide your arousal inside of me as I tremble going from all fours to laying flat on the bed. You begin to catch your rhythm as I enjoy you inside of me we both begin to moan. Stroke after stroke moan after moan we decide to change positions. I get behind you and start massaging your cheeks I slide inside you I could not believe what he had been missing out on. After a few strokes with me inside you, you turn over to lay on your back. Spreading your legs even in the dark I can not help but notice the arch in your toes as we rock back and forth listing at my headboard tap against the wall. As I pull you closer to me, I start to whisper into your ear and remind you of how good your body feels wrapped around me. Asking you to ride me, we turn over as you get on top I cant help but be reminded of how firm your cheeks feel.
While you are on top of me, I begin to feel the wetness coming from your arousal as it bounces on my abs. Holding you in my arms we begin a slow bounce up and down. As I try to raise up you push me back down telling me to finish. Not being able to control myself at this point we both start to moan louder and louder as we finish you lean over to kiss me.
BAM... BAM... BAM!!!!! WTF I say? Its the neighbors below us knocking on their ceiling telling us to shut the fuck up.
Its soft and I think you feel my heart pulsating as its pressed against your firm back. Holding you in my arms I can feel your heart beating too . As we talk and laugh eventually we fall asleep with you in my arms. 2:17am.
Breaking the kiss, I began to nibble along your nipples. In complete darkness I am able to feel how beautifully formed, your entire body is. I continued kissing down your body, and licking your abs. I could feel your arousal tremble in my hand. Down on my knees, I kiss the head of your arousal. You moaned again as I opened my mouth and pushed your arousal through my lips. I loved the taste and the smoothness of the area surrounding it you pushed more into my mouth, ever so slowly.
Taking my time, not wanting to rush anything, wanting you to enjoy what I was doing, I slip 2 fingers inside you. As you whisper "I love when you do that to me..." turning me on even more I begin to bob my head up and down while I push my fingers in and out of you. Massaging your full balls in my hand, you moaned out loud. You raised my head up so that I may kiss you as you are laying me on my back.
You start to run your tongue down my firm body until you reach my freshly shaved arousal. You start sucking me deep reaching around to grab my cheeks you pull me even closer. As I began moaning you turn me over and put your tongue inside of me.
Wet, you slide your arousal inside of me as I tremble going from all fours to laying flat on the bed. You begin to catch your rhythm as I enjoy you inside of me we both begin to moan. Stroke after stroke moan after moan we decide to change positions. I get behind you and start massaging your cheeks I slide inside you I could not believe what he had been missing out on. After a few strokes with me inside you, you turn over to lay on your back. Spreading your legs even in the dark I can not help but notice the arch in your toes as we rock back and forth listing at my headboard tap against the wall. As I pull you closer to me, I start to whisper into your ear and remind you of how good your body feels wrapped around me. Asking you to ride me, we turn over as you get on top I cant help but be reminded of how firm your cheeks feel.
While you are on top of me, I begin to feel the wetness coming from your arousal as it bounces on my abs. Holding you in my arms we begin a slow bounce up and down. As I try to raise up you push me back down telling me to finish. Not being able to control myself at this point we both start to moan louder and louder as we finish you lean over to kiss me.
BAM... BAM... BAM!!!!! WTF I say? Its the neighbors below us knocking on their ceiling telling us to shut the fuck up.
Its soft and I think you feel my heart pulsating as its pressed against your firm back. Holding you in my arms I can feel your heart beating too . As we talk and laugh eventually we fall asleep with you in my arms. 2:17am.
This Christmas
12:55,1:55, 2:55, finally time to board the plane to VA 3 hours later. Upon arrival, DJ rents a shoebox for us to drive to his aunts house where we are staying. It was a rather interesting trip to say the least. Did you know having a driveway in VA is a luxury item? Otherwise you have rocks even on a brand new house. The family had a party which was real nice. Per capital Richmond VA has more gay clubs than Atlanta. I was surprised with an iPhone. I guess sometimes people do listen to me as I am rambling. LOL.. After 3 flight delays we are back in Atl. For me it was a rather quiet Christmas compared to what I am use to.
Monday, December 22, 2008
Does the future still equate the past?
As I woke up Sunday morning hung over from two parties the night before, I reach for my phone and start to scroll through it reviewing missed calls, text, etc.... There was one particular which stood out. Taking two aspirin to relieve the headache I am suffering from, I return to my phone to look again. I say to myself "hmm is this for real". Around 11 am I get up to start my Sunday, which does not stand out from any other at this point. Handling my needs shower, dressing, etc. , I prepare to go see my uncle for a few hours.
Finishing my visit with Mitchell, the Mario brothers ring tone plays to signify I have a new text message. Picking up my phone, I look... "hmm" I think again. I respond as I dust the chips off my shirt I subside and decide to take a drive... based on the new message and my response it leads one way. Straight to you.
As you and I sit in an attempt to keep it light hearted, some how, some way, feelings about the past slid into the conversation. I sit, I listen, I disagree, I listen and I think. Looking outside the window I slowly watch Sunday turn to Sunnight. I start to ask myself a series of questions:
Finishing my visit with Mitchell, the Mario brothers ring tone plays to signify I have a new text message. Picking up my phone, I look... "hmm" I think again. I respond as I dust the chips off my shirt I subside and decide to take a drive... based on the new message and my response it leads one way. Straight to you.
As you and I sit in an attempt to keep it light hearted, some how, some way, feelings about the past slid into the conversation. I sit, I listen, I disagree, I listen and I think. Looking outside the window I slowly watch Sunday turn to Sunnight. I start to ask myself a series of questions:
- What is this all about?
- Am I really in NYC and you're in LA, yet we are in the same room?
- Does my future still equate my past?
Some how I feel empty when I leave, with the above questions still unanswered. We will never be able to move from this cause its not being allowed.
Often times, individuals need something to hold on to for justification in their lives. How can man be justified if all are under sin? The book of Romans teaches us that justification comes from God not man. If you are continue using man to rationalize the actions of your past, it becomes difficult for you to see a future. At some point we must take accountability for our own actions.
I leave you with this, I am already living for tomorrow, stop living in yesterday.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Eight
By now the entire nation is aware of the fact that a decisive majority of Californians declared definitively that in their state “marriage” would remain defined in explicitly monogamous, heterosexual terms.
Equally obvious to all is the reaction that the successful passage of “Proposition 8” elicited from its left-wing opponents. The gross incivility displayed by the proponents of “same-sex marriage” toward the majority of their fellow residents, and the Mormon Church in particular, is self-condemnatory. But it is the Left’s charge that “Proposition 8” violates the so-called “Church/State separation clause” in the Constitution on which I want to focus here.
That there is no such clause, that the expression “separation of Church and State” originates in and reaches no further than one letter written by Thomas Jefferson, and that our Founding Fathers intended only to insure that America would be devoid of a government sponsored Church are facts easily verified. Even the Left knows this. And this is the point: for all of their Constitutionally-charged rhetoric, leftists, or at least militant leftists, care not a lick about whether religion per se fuses with politics.
Equally obvious to all is the reaction that the successful passage of “Proposition 8” elicited from its left-wing opponents. The gross incivility displayed by the proponents of “same-sex marriage” toward the majority of their fellow residents, and the Mormon Church in particular, is self-condemnatory. But it is the Left’s charge that “Proposition 8” violates the so-called “Church/State separation clause” in the Constitution on which I want to focus here.
That there is no such clause, that the expression “separation of Church and State” originates in and reaches no further than one letter written by Thomas Jefferson, and that our Founding Fathers intended only to insure that America would be devoid of a government sponsored Church are facts easily verified. Even the Left knows this. And this is the point: for all of their Constitutionally-charged rhetoric, leftists, or at least militant leftists, care not a lick about whether religion per se fuses with politics.
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Saturday, December 6, 2008
Honestly?
You say you want this right?
Well let me explain
This is who I am, this is what I do
Let me explain my truth to you.
I am presenting myself
I tell you no lie
The truth was what you wanted
I have no alibi.
You said you wanted this right?
Don't become defensive
I am just providing the truth
Although its hard for you to understand what else should I do?
I am following your request
Telling what you want
By your response I am starting to think you don't.
If you never wanted this you should have said such.
It appears me being honest for you is way way too much.
Honestly?
Honesty has made you afraid of me.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Merry EX Must.....
Well this is the first year in 6 years that I am spending Christmas without my EX. On Monday, as I helped Trevor put up his Christmas trees in his house and office. I found myself a bit depressed because normally MJ and I would be in talks about our Christmas colors preparing our Christmas cards and preparing to go to Home Depot to "get" our Christmas tree. Yes I said GET, we both believed that trees are free so why pay for them. We would just pick one out and put it on top of his sister SUV (while getting one for her too) and ride out. The past 2 years we had 12 to 14 ft trees. Last year it was so big it was sliding off the top of her car. LOL.... good times..
This year I will not get a tree. Dominique has asked me to go to VA/DC area with him for the holiday so I agreed. I think I will have a great time.
MJ will be missed this year but….. Christmas and life are just alike they must go on…
This year I will not get a tree. Dominique has asked me to go to VA/DC area with him for the holiday so I agreed. I think I will have a great time.
MJ will be missed this year but….. Christmas and life are just alike they must go on…
Thanks BTR Giving
This year I took a friend of mine home with me too meet the family…… Boy what an experience, as it always is. I had a great time!!! He said he had a good time but since he shows no real emotion I cannot tell you. My teenage sister advised him that he was not going to make it through the weekend if he did not speak up now and speak more often. She pegged him the first night and it was so funny to me. My family is a loud, to the point and very emotional. Let’s just say we like to have a good time. Thursday was full of laughs sometimes almost in tears…. My grandmother asked me “so why does a good looking young man like yourself want to wear your hair like that? I told her “it has not stopped me from getting a man”. She laughed as my father shook his head as to say OMG my son is a real live fag!!!! My aunt Dina was her normal self drunk for the holiday.
We all packed up for the weekend and headed to New Orleans for the Bayou Classic, Friday I got so drunk. I had a heated discussion with my father and went back to my hotel. Saturday we went to the game my friend Shelley and her husband Elgin drove down from ATL to spend the holiday and weekend in N.O. and they went to the game with us (30 folks). Although Southern lost the game and I lost my voice from being the section 131 cheer captain it was still a bunch of fun. Sunday it was all over and time for the drive back home.
It was an intense yet relaxing time…
We all packed up for the weekend and headed to New Orleans for the Bayou Classic, Friday I got so drunk. I had a heated discussion with my father and went back to my hotel. Saturday we went to the game my friend Shelley and her husband Elgin drove down from ATL to spend the holiday and weekend in N.O. and they went to the game with us (30 folks). Although Southern lost the game and I lost my voice from being the section 131 cheer captain it was still a bunch of fun. Sunday it was all over and time for the drive back home.
It was an intense yet relaxing time…
Where spoken classism "Leafs" you.....
About 2 weeks ago I was on the elevator heading to my office. Two men who apparently worked for the same company (I could tell by name tags) were on the ride with me. One turns to the other and asks "how was your weekend" he advised it was spent raking the leaves in his yard for 5 hours on Saturday. The other guy said "geez I could not imagine raking my yard, I write a big check 3 times a year for that" The other guy said "wow that must be nice to be able to do." I smiled and shook my head, it was apparent the 2 guys were worlds apart in salary by tone, appearance, etc.
It got me to thinking about the Big 3 CEO's who decided to show up to capital hill, in great style (jets) and how some things are just not though about when you consider yourself to be in a different "class". Things like what is appropriate to say, what is appropriate to do and how inappropriate measures can be your downfall. A great example is the hand out those executives were seeking when they were not taking the necessary steps to protect their companies from bankruptcy. Jets, massive salaries, terrible products, are some things that can be considered.
Typically, what I have found is as my friend Shelley said "a fool and their money will soon part”. Don’t get me wrong the way you choose to celebrate your success is your business, however when you involve the lives of others, you should consider your actions. I have not been the poster child for non arrogant behavior myself but something should never be said. Don’t fly to me for a hand out in your jet. Don’t mention to your co-workers what you can afford.
In this economy we should all be a little more careful what we choose to spend our money on. Those of us, who choose not to be more careful may be raking leaves as a job, while those who once raked them as a past time will be writing fat checks.
It got me to thinking about the Big 3 CEO's who decided to show up to capital hill, in great style (jets) and how some things are just not though about when you consider yourself to be in a different "class". Things like what is appropriate to say, what is appropriate to do and how inappropriate measures can be your downfall. A great example is the hand out those executives were seeking when they were not taking the necessary steps to protect their companies from bankruptcy. Jets, massive salaries, terrible products, are some things that can be considered.
Typically, what I have found is as my friend Shelley said "a fool and their money will soon part”. Don’t get me wrong the way you choose to celebrate your success is your business, however when you involve the lives of others, you should consider your actions. I have not been the poster child for non arrogant behavior myself but something should never be said. Don’t fly to me for a hand out in your jet. Don’t mention to your co-workers what you can afford.
In this economy we should all be a little more careful what we choose to spend our money on. Those of us, who choose not to be more careful may be raking leaves as a job, while those who once raked them as a past time will be writing fat checks.
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