We often seek dating advice from others when sometimes we can find that advice within our on space. One of the most important things you can do in your relationship is to assure that you take time for yourself to develop who you are and evaluate what you want out of your relationship. eHarmony (out of all places) states "nothing grows without space and air". Although its important to intermingle your life with that of your mates its also very important to not lose your identity within the process. Your relationship cant be everything or nothing. Hopefully you can leave your relationship with more knowledge of who you are, but in the event you dont at least being who you were before. I urge you to find space in your togetherness.
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